Al and Lavinia

Al and Lavinia came to me by way of a nomination.  They were nominated for the free couples session in February.  And although they were not chosen for the grand prize, I did offer them a session, because their story touched me very deeply.  This was their nomination story...

I would like to nominate my friends Al & Lavinia for the free couple session.

They have been married for about 30 tough years. Several years ago, Al was

diagnosed with cancer, Lavinia was right by his side to help him "get through"

it, while raising 4 beautiful children.  If that wasn't enough, later down the road, 

Lavinia herself was diagnosed with cancer and the roles reversed. 

A few years ago, Al had a stroke, his speech was impacted so much that you had 

to struggle to understand what he was trying to say.  He didn't understand your basic 

everyday things and could not be left alone. Lavinia was right by his side, working 

with him everyday to re-teach him how to talk and to explain the simplest things to 

him such as the stove is "hot" and what that actually meant.  Fast forward to now.... 

Lavinia has been diagnosed with cancer yet again, and Al is by her side. They are

still in Love and you can tell for them that laughter and family are the best medicine. 

They have been through so very much. 

Love should be rewarded.  Especially the kind of true love that stands by you through thick and thin.  The kind of love, Al and Lavinia share should be looked at and admired.  We should all wish for a love so deep and true.  The kind of love that still shines brightly in their eyes, after 30 years of marriage. 

Talking with this beautiful couple, you would never know they have ever been sick.  Let alone that they are dealing with illnesses right now. They are so full of life and love.  They are both so proud to be celebrating their 30th year of marriage! I asked Lavinia what their secret is to a long happy marriage, and her response was simple "compromise".  Some couples spend so much time fighting for their own way, fighting to be RIGHT, they miss the big picture.  

I am so happy to have not only met, but had the honor of working with this fantastic couple.  Seeing love this deep is rare. Its a treasure to behold.  After 30 years, still looking at the man you love and saying "he is my ken doll".  

I wish you both 30 more years of love.  I wish you years of health, and family, and laughter! Thank you for letting me capture your love and memories!